Dear Annie: Vaping is a dealbreaker for me, and I just found out my boyfriend has been sneaking it
Summary
The writer, who lost her father to lung cancer, is deeply opposed to smoking and vaping. She recently discovered that her boyfriend, a nurse, has been secretly vaping behind her back. She was not only upset by his habit but also by the lengths he went to hide it, especially given his profession. After confronting him, he promised to quit, citing immense pressure. However, the writer recently found newly bought vaping pens in his apartment. She feels devastated by the lying and the breach of trust. The advice column suggests that her boyfriend is likely addicted and ashamed, and that instead of immediately breaking up, she should help him find support groups and healthier ways to cope with stress.
(Source:Syracuse Ny Local News)